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Valentines Day!!! Love?? or Fear??

Happy Valentine's Day! What a day, where there will be an enormous amount of love being spread between individuals. Here is your little advice about love. 

  • Love is the most powerful 4 letter word!
    • There are three things every person wants: 1)to be valued. 2) to be appreciated. 3)to be respected. If you really want to change the world, value, appreciate and respect others. -Shane Adams
Now on to the more important subject. So many people will be showing and experiencing love today because its valentines day, a singular day in the year. What about the other 364? Everyone will be talking about love today so I figured I would speak about Fear.
  • Fear, a terrible 4 letter word, the opposite of love, and the destruction of many relationships, teams, and individuals. Or is it not as terrible as we dream it to be? 
  • When we are born we have two innate fears, fear of falling and fear of loud noises. Every single other fear we have is learned and can also be unlearned. So why do we fear so much?
  • The only place that fear can exist is in our thoughts of the future. It is a product of our imagination, causing us to fear things that do not at present and may not ever exist. That is near insanity. Do not misunderstand me, danger is very real, but fear is a choice. 
  • It is all mindset, how you chose to look at the lens of your situation. In a fearful mindset or a fearless mindset. When we act accordingly to our fearless mindset we can become fully confident and full of joy.
You can decide today, through your mindset whether or not you will win the day. When you stay on your mission in life, God will make himself uniquely known. So while everyone is experiencing love today... go and tell them they can experience love to fearlessly finish each day with a loving mindset and not a fearful one. 

Fear is a choice. 
What will you choose?
Love or Fear?

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