Thanks...My Pleasure

What do you do when you expect someone to do something? And they don't do it.  You set an expectation for them to accomplish a certain task, act a certain way, or set an expectation for someone else. And they don't do it.  When a co-worker leaves tasks for you to accomplish, that was EXPECTED of them. When a father EXPECTS your room to be clean and bed to be made.  When a spouse EXPECTS the dishes to be done and the clothes to be folded.  I realize that when we set expectations on others they always let us down and we end up doing more work. We almost sent ourselves up for failure.  What we must realize is that we also fail expectations all the time. It is like a loop of failed expectations.  The cure to this: understand and be aware of when you fail someone else's expectations.  It allows you to give grace to others when they fail because you want to be shown grace as well. You can set expectations because they are important but always match them with...

 What is Gap Filler You May Ask?  A gap filler is someone who has the ability and awareness to see opportunities and challenges around them, then fill them.  When there is a gap in communication, someone has to fill the void.  When there is a gap in leadership, someone has to fill the void.  When there is a gap in love, someone has to fill the void. When there is a gap in work, someone has to fill the void. It is self-explanatory to understand that a gap filler, fills gaps.  It is also very easy to misunderstand the importance and strength it takes to be a gap filler. Practically this looks like covering a shift of another co-worker, looks like overcommunicating to others that may bring conflict upon yourself, taking the burden of hurt from others and their trama, as well as taking the blame knowingly when another leader falls short. This is a heavy burden sometimes because you have to be the glue that holds seemingly everything together. But, take heart, b...